Let’s write your comeback story
Hi - I’m Lori. My coaching practice is about clarity, transformation, and empowerment. Sometimes with sass, but always with heart. I help my clients to uncover the truth of where they are and why — empowering them to confront challenges like intimate betrayal, career and financial upheaval, or difficult relationship dynamics
My practice is rooted in one fundamental tenet: understanding your truth is the key to liberation. Having navigated the fires of relational trauma myself, I know firsthand the disorienting impact of denial and the transformative power of breaking free. I'm here to guide you in stripping away the "shoulds" and "nice girl" conditioning to see your situation with unflinching honesty. This isn't about sugarcoating; it's about reclaiming your identity, owning your power, and learning to navigate the world with openness and the unwavering conviction to take absolutely no shit along the way
Relational Coaching
Lori Shelley Coaching services
Private Coaching
You’ve been lied to. Betrayed, even gaslighted. This individual session focuses on reclaiming your clarity, understanding your options, and owning what happens next. We’ll cut through the chaos and make your life yours again. No more lies, just transparency, healing, and freedom
Initial Consult
A simple way to get started on your journey of healing. This initial session is to get to know each other. I’ll tell you about what I do and how I coach. You tell me about you and your current situation. We’ll figure out the best path forward
Family Member Coaching
Relational trauma can have a profound impact on the entire family. This session provides for a safe and understanding space for affected family members to understand their feelings, communicate their needs, and foster a sense of safety and stability amidst challenging circumstances
My coaching philosophy: Soft but Strong
With a strategic and compassionate approach to coaching, I can help guide you to find your spark and listen to your inner voice on where to go next. I bring a unique blend of real-world experience with a no-nonsense but deeply-caring coaching style. Together we’ll laugh, cry (sometimes), and get to work on bridging the gap between the life you have and the life you want
My credentials
Drawing on a rich and varied background spanning finance, human resources, corporate culture, and the profound experience of motherhood, I bring a unique and holistic perspective to relational trauma coaching. My journey has illuminated the intricate ways in which our experiences shape our relationships and well-being
Trained in professional coaching by the Co-Active Training Institute (CTI), and pursuing coaching certifications from the International Coaching Federation (ICF) and the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS), I am dedicated to empowering individuals to heal from relational wounds, build stronger connections, and cultivate lives filled with greater authenticity and resilience
Outside of my coaching practice, I find joy and rejuvenation in the beauty of nature through hiking and biking
Get started on your healing journey
Ready to reclaim your truth and your power? Take the first step towards healing and clarity. Book your initial consultation today and let's start your journey of unapologetic self-discovery and strength